An operator mentioned to me recently that, since lockdown, there seem to be far more 'Karens'. While this might surprise some customers, there’s a valid point—not about complaints themselves, but about how much more demanding customers have become. Back in 2000, when I opened my first bar, we stood out with premium products and exceptional service. Simple actions like clearing ashtrays, quick service, and genuine smiles created unforgettable experiences, turning guests into a loyal community. Today, customers are savvier, expectations are higher, and competition is tougher. But true hospitality isn’t just about food and drink—it’s about creating a sense of belonging. Independent businesses succeed when they forge meaningful connections that no home setup or discount can replicate.
If You’re Paying for Loyalty, It’s Not Loyalty
Loyalty Isn’t About Transactions—It’s About Connection
In my 30 years in hospitality, I’ve seen loyalty shift from meaningful gestures to mere transactions. Decades ago, offering a free coffee or a bottle of prosecco for a birthday felt special—a heartfelt way to thank customers. Now, these gestures are tick-box exercises, part of the cost of doing business.
True loyalty isn’t built on loyalty cards or discounts; it’s about forming deep emotional bonds where customers feel they belong. Loyal customers stay longer, spend more, and become your advocates. The key? Focus on meaningful relationships, not more customers. Build your tribe, not your mailing list.
5-Star Reviews Are Useless: Why Your Loyal Customers Don’t Care About TripAdvisor
Are 5-star reviews truly a sign of customer loyalty, or are they just a fleeting moment of validation? While glowing reviews can attract new customers, they often come from first-time visitors rather than your loyal tribe. Your most devoted customers—those who visit regularly, value your experience beyond price, and share your story with others—don’t need to post online to show their support. True loyalty is built on trust, connection, and the role your business plays in their lives. Measuring loyalty requires a deeper understanding of your purpose and aligning your values with those who matter most. Are you focusing on the right metrics?